I agree with She-ra…most folks will talk bad about America but not about Americans. Semantics, maybe, but nearly all of the Europeans I’ve met have been very friendly to me, and were curious about all sorts of things American. Only once was I turned away from a restaurant because I was American, and that was before 9/11. When it came to politics and the war, they disagreed on some things and agreed on others, but could separate my government from me as an individual.
In the end, it came down to one thing - their governments represent their views about as well as any other democracy. Some issues were right on, others were politicians pandering to some group or other. So realizing that, they usually didn’t treat me any different as an individual just because they didn’t agree with some of the things my government does.
And in light of the concern for being liked, I don’t live my life that way. I do what I think is right, and don’t care much for folks who live according to what they think others will like. That’s called pandering. And just like no one will agree with everything I think is right, no country will agree with everything America thinks is right. This isn’t majority rule. Not that every decision America makes is right, but I sure don’t think our actions should be based on the approval of other nations.
In college, I came up with an analogy…America is like a teenager. We’re strong and full of energy, and idealistically want to fix the world. Right now we have the power and energy to try, but sometimes not the experience, wisdom and patience to do it right. The culture of instant gratification. Just like teenagers. Just like almost every other powerful nation at some time in their development.
Jeff
Jeff