Friends meeting up to hike

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#1

I am starting my thru hike on march 9th. I have lots of friends and relatives that are constantly saying, “where and when can i come meet you so we can hike together for a couple of days or a week”. I hope none of them are reading this, but i am a little hesitant to agree to have them join me. I am sure it would be nice to see them but i assume there are some issues involved in having friends step in for a short time. Does anyone have any experience with this. Either positive or negative?

Thanks,
Dave

Dave

#2

We never had anyone come out & hike with us, but the main thing I noticed about those who did was how they had to cut down on mileage & pace. Being a thru-hiker & used to doing 15 - 20+ mile days, it will probably be hard for you to slow down so much. But, I think it would definitely be worth taking your time. Your friends and family will really get the trail experience and will be all the more eager to relive the memories when you’re done. They’ll really appreciate what you’re doing.:slight_smile: Another thing, you’ll probably want to plan on tenting if you’ve got a group with you. A lot of thru-hikers will get annoyed when the whole shelter’s taken up with one group.

Loony

#3

I had several times during my hike that family came to meet me. That usually meant having a specific time and place to meet up set several days in advance, which for me wasn’t fun. It forces you to hike on a schedule, which can really mess up your rhythm. It can force you to do a long or short day when you really want to do the opposite, and it can force you to hike ahead or behind of a group that you really enjoy hanging out with…

…BUT…

It’s a fantastic chance to get your family and friends involved in your hike. If your family is anything like mine was, they are really interested in and trying hard to understand what you are about to do. To have them come and actually see you in the trail environment, and to have them maybe even experience a small part of it themselves, is priceless both for them and you. I guarantee they will have a newfound understanding and respect for what you are doing, and you will be glad to see them. It’s hard to describe, but in the long run it’s worth it.

ALSO…they will buy all the food and beer for you that you can handle. That in itself makes it worth the trouble.

Pile Up

#4

Many of my friends have suggested that we meet along the AT for a short period of hiking together. I tell them that I am uncertain of where I will be at any given time. I would love to hike with them but how do I know when I will get to NJ or NY or CT? I have an approximate time of reaching those destinations but I cannot schedule a weekend encounter for I might reach the DWG on a mid-week day when my friends are all at work. Of course, if I leave the trail for a wedding or some other event I can arrange for them to join me as I resume my trek. Better to just have dinner with them and share my experience verbally. If they are insistent then I would be happy to hike a day or so with them so that they can experience “the trail.” If I continue to hike my pace (after 1386 miles) most likely they will fall behind. Then I could choose to hike more slowly for the purpose of sharing an AT experience with people who are significant to me. That would be good as long as it doesn’t happen too frequently along the way.

Certainly, having friends out on the trail is a great opportunity to have pictures taken which will become treasures over the succeeding years.

Another benefit might be that they will decide to do it themselves one year.

Skylander

Skylander

#5

Well, here’s a productive thread. :slight_smile:

Yes, I had quite a bit of experience with this on my hike. I live in Maine and belong to an outdoor club so there were quite a few people that wanted to hike with me, esp. when I got closer to home.

What I like to advise when this question comes up, is this: it’s easier if the folks coming out to hike not have a fixed section or place they want to meet you. iow, they have to schedule around you, that’s just the way it works. It CAN disrupt your rhythm, it will more than likely make you slow down and lose your friends for a bit, but it is fun to show your friends and family what this hiking (thru-) thing is all about.

I had a girlfriend fly out from UT and hike the Shennies with me, a few weeks before she picked a date and called the ATC who recommended she fly to Dulles vs. BWI and hooked her up with a shuttler. It all worked out great. Most importantly, don’t let them get you involved in their plans. They’re going to have to figure out their A==>B hike with you and how to arrange that, you can’t be worrying about it at town stops. Use the ATC and local clubs and their shuttle lists.

Another friend met me in Harper’s Ferry and walked to the Doyle with me for a week. That was a great time, he’s one of my bping buddies and knew what to bring and was in decent shape so could do the 15-20s a day and we didn’t lose my group. We had a ball. That’s a REALLY good section for people to hike - you have a state crossing/M-D line, Half Gallon Challenge, State parks with food and swimming, relatively easy terrain (the first part of PA is WONderful hiking) and interesting towns. Ending in Duncannon was a classic.

My brother came out to Cheshire to hike to Stratton with me. He wasn’t working at the time, so since this was the section he wanted to do he could be flexible on my schedule and also could drive there. He also paid for a shuttle.
Others did days or overnights in the Whites and Maine to meet me, specifically my husband who started being able to figure where I was within a few hours and would start hiking south to meet me.

Right now, before your hike, you just can’t predict. You might be one of the types that does 20+ milers day after day and finishes in 5 or less months. You might be like me who did 15-20s/100-105 mile weeks and finished in 6 months. You might spend time in DC, you might take the train to NYC, you might paint a house in VA for 3 weeks while you and your dog recoup. ?? These are just examples of how widely varying your schedule can become. I finshed 5 days shy of 6 mos with people that started 3 weeks ahead of me to 3-4 weeks after me.

Don’t shoot yourself in the foot and try to plan for them now. They’re the ones that have to be flexible, this is your hike and your schedule. The Outside World exists only for PO closures.

Have a wonderful hike Dave.

Bluebearee
GA==>ME 02

Bluebearee

#6

Do you live in a state near the trail? If not, then don’t worry about it.

Everyone WANTS to come out and hike with you for a week, while you are back at home, in the comfort of society, but once you start sending them reports back, they won’t.

Just start sounding crazy when you call back home. Or start mailing them pine cones and rocks. Trust me, they won’t come out after that.

bearbait

#7

This is a great thread, and one that those of us who are not “official thruhikers” should pay attention to. When I am hiking with a thruhiker, I just sort of merge on the trail and merge off, trying to avoid cramping their style too much. The great thing about hiking some with a thru is the incredible learning experience. I count myself a somewhat seasoned backpacker, but I learn something new each and every time I am out with one of you. HafDome (CT 2003) taught me tons, and was glad to share. I will be a better hiker this year as a result. Thanks Hafdome.

TrailGuy