I like Jonna’s idea that unattached hiking is like nirvana. Hiking alone allows me to go places in my mind more quickly and more deeply than if I’m with a dog or another person or both. Being alone is an aid to meditation in that sense. Or I can just enjoy the moments of the act of hiking.
But I love taking the dog out on day hikes, which automatically makes them a shared experience. When I take the dog, it pretty much always winds up being mostly HER hike, more than mine. We watch out for each other, but the burden of her care is on me. But even a relationship with a dog has days that are more harmonious than other days. My hiking dog loves to walk, but I’d never consider a thru with her.
Hiking with another person depends completely on the chemistry between them and me, our hiking styles, speeds and tendencies, physical condition, type of relationship, etc., whether male or female, friend or acquaintance. Things get more and more complicated the more people you add to a group. Some people enjoy the complications, but I like to keep it simple. Easier that way, which is why I’m out there in the first place. More depends on the relationship dynamic than on whether the other person is of the opposite sex, IMHO.
Tyger