Werewolf, that was a good post, with a lot of really good points. Thank you for sharing that.
As has been said, the amount of adjustment varies from person to person. A lot depends on what else you have going on in your life. If you can replace the goal of reaching Katahdin with another large but realizable goal, it can be a bit easier. I have known folks who started school, or a new career, or a marriage, and were able to fill the hole that finishing the trail can leave. For me, that only worked for a while. After each of my two AT hikes, I moved to a new city and started over. For a while I had the excitement of exploring my new location, finding work, friends, etc. But sooner or later, the call of the trail returned. The difference between the simplicity and beauty of trail life and the insanity of city life was and is really frustrating. Some people go back to their old lives with barely a ripple. I think the retired hikers can do that most easily. Perhaps because they feel less trapped by circumstances that those of us who are doing the 9 to 5 gig. For those of us who hiked because there was something essential missing in our lives to begin with, going back to the old environment just isn’t workable in the long run. I am very happy when I am in the woods. I love to hike and to spend time traveling, exploring new places and peoples. I love to be surrounded by trees and rocks and wildlife. Unfortunately, job and family issues require me to live in cities (for now) with only occasional breaks. Every 5 years or so I manage to take off for a long hike, but I miss thruhiking all the time. As you said, talking to other hikers helps – the Gathering is great for that – but it also hurts to watch others take off for their hikes each spring and know that it will another 3 or 4 years before I can get back on the trail again. As you said, even those who love you won’t understand what you are going through. That is one reason I encourage hikers to bring their spouse, if at all possible. Long distance hiking is a different world. I frequently feel like an exile. I know that that other world exists, I just can’t be there right now. But I will be back.
Spirit Walker