10 years from now, how will you feel if you don’t do this? How will you feel if you do?
About 11 years ago I “responsibly” chose to abstain from an upcoming Pink Floyd concert. My wife and I were both in school with young kids and a tight budget, and after a lot of deliberation, I did the “right thing”, and passed on the $60 tickets.
Trouble is, I’m convinced today that I definitely did the wrong thing. Turns out, that was their last tour (pray not, but hey…aren’t they like in their 70’s?) I cringe every time I reflect on missing it. I should have sold blood, if that’s what it took! That 60 bucks to me today is irrelevant, and I know that for me, I f’d up.
So, what if I had spent the 60 and screwed up on a bill, or even missed the rent? What if you do the AT hike, and end struggling with no money in real life after it’s over? Well, I know now that, first, I most likely would have rearranged the financials and just dealt with it, maybe even having to sell some belongings. Well, so be it; they’re probably belongings that I no longer own anyway, or they’re in storage.
So, worse case, if you finish without a dime to your name, no insurance, no job yet, could you deal with it? Could you march into Burger King and get something temporary so’s you could eat? Could you rent a cheap room for a while? COuld you do all that without imposing on the folks? (they might be afraid of the bird returning to the coop, just when they were enjoying their freedom sans kids).
Can’t tell you what’s right for you, but you probably can. Hike your own hike; this should include prepping for it.
One more thought: your dad might respond well to a polite, but firm statement of your intentions, but then ask for his help and advice, and maybe even arrange to have him meet you for some section hiking, or a reunion somewhere on some zero days. If he has internet, try to get him to read some of the journals on TJ.
Good luck buddy. Will you keep us apprised? Either in this forum or in a journal?
Hoopdedoo